Well first im samantha I am 13 and a half years old, my birthday is on the 15th of july, I have great family and friends that are very supportive to me and inspirational, it has been a long childhood and a bit of a hard one, my very first few years until I hit about 7 where great, abut 6 years ago my parents separated which was confusing and hard for me at first cause I didnt have a clue what was going on.... Once I started getting older I started to understand the concept of this, it is still hard for me as it used to be perfect (well to me it was).
Yes I used to get upto alot of mischief when i was younger, in saying that I still do but i try to be more matture.
When I was in primary school, i used to get bullied alot ecspecially once I hit year 5, just cause of 1 little thing thats when I stopped wanting to go to school, but in the end it was good cause that person ended up moving schools, but a few weeks later the bulling started up again, i used to get called ugly, fat etc...
I used to always listen to them, and i would come home pretending everything was ok but it wasnt I would always have mood swings and my dad, my step-mum and my mum starting noticing things werent right. So they sat me down and said they asked me if they're was ANYTHING on my chest I wanted to tell them... I was very scared to tell them, the time I got bullied in year 5 I never told the office, so my dad went to the school and wanted to sort it out there and then. When i was in primary school and I had any issue's in some of my juniour years they was a very good prncipal where if I had ANY problems he would drop what he was doing and help us, but once he went everything went down hill and i started getting bullied once again, I even sometimes go to the car almost in tears and telling my dad that i kept getting told that i was gonna get bashed was hard to tell him cause I didnt know what he was gonna do, anytime I was upset and I was with dad he always used to hold me and his words would be " Everything will be, everything will work out". I used to always think it will never get better.
Then around 3 years ago someone came into my dad's life.... Lisa, it was funny cause before they got together everytime dad was on the computer I always used to talk to her, apparently one day I asked her " Are you going out with my dad"?... I dont even remember asking that lol....
When dad came to the school one day he brought this lady with him and i didnt click to me at first then remembered hang on that must be lisa, I thought to myself wow she's short but I didnt say anything cause I didnt want to affend her... When I came home I had this huge smile on my face cause I wanted to meet lisa and sit down to get to know her...
Then after a long period of time we started fighting alot used to say to eachother " I hate you, your a cow etc"... Afterwards we used to ignore eachother and once we had calmed down we would sit down and talk about it. Its the way she was brought up to sort stuff out once she had calmed down. Lisa was brought up stricked so she can be VERY strict but not to worry.
My relationship with my dad is really good, with mum it is really good and with Lisa its good. I have alot of ups and downs with them 3, but this is to be expected.
Ever since my mum and dad have been seperated my time with them is spent equally, I go to my mums one week then go to my dad's one week, I love spending time with them all. I go on alot of outings with them when its my week with one or the other. They always have surprises planned but I would never get told which sometimes annoys me but ends up good in the end.
Then a couple of years ago I got up one morning about to get ready for school and lisa comes in with a grin on her face, I was very curious, all of a sudden all I hear her say is "Sammy, your gonna be a big sister". I swear I almost fell backwards, I had always been an only child which was always annoying cause I got bored and no one to muck around with...
When I heard the news I got VERY excited knowing I was going to be a big sister. I always went to school with a huge grin on my face, all of my friends always asked " Why do you have a really big smile on your face". When I told them they got really happy and excited.
I always went to the scans, then about when Lisa was about 8 weeks i think we went for a scan and found that she had a miscarrige it was VERY upsetting for all of us, then i went to school telling my friends i wasnt going to be a sister anymore, they felt very sorry for me and dad and lisa.
A couple months later the same thing happend getting told that I was going to be a sister, I was very worried that the same thing was going to happen again, but once Lisa got past the safe point I was getting very excited. When we went to antinatal classes the first time, I remembered the lady saying to always give the lady givin g birth fluids. When Lisa starting getting contractions dad, and a very old friend of ours Cherie got home from bringing chinese for tea, we ate tea and they started getting worse . The next morning Lisa's waters broke. Our old friend Skye that was living with us at the time came in and woke me up. I wasnt happy getting woken up so earl, but when i got told Lisa's water's broke i got staright up. We went to the hospital but got sent back home. That night I think she went into labour we rushed to the hospital, and got sent to a bed, was in that room for abit then got sent out and put into another room...
I started getting very tired and asked dad to ring skye to come and pick me up but by the time she got there bubs was on her way, I wasnt happy lol....
Once she came they called her Kaitilyn Jane Thompson.
I wanted to know more like her weight, height etc, but I was starting to get to tired so I went home and went to bed and got that day off of school cause I didnt get home untill about 3 in the morning.
When I woke up skye and myself drove back down to the hospital and I couldnt wait to see my new sister and hold her.
Now she is almost 2 and she is VERY cheeky and gets into ALOT of mischeif, everytime im at my mums all dad and Lisa get is "sis, sis, sissy". When I come back from m y mum's and she see's me all I get is a HUGE smile and she runs and gives me a BIG hug and lots of kisses.
I ALWAYS love hearing my sister laugh, but HATE seeing her cry, but if she is naughty then she doesnt get away with it.
I LOVE MY FAMIL.Y TO BITS <33
I suppose I better hop off and have a break...
Hope all my family and friends enjoy reading some of life time.
